Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Finally some pictures

Finally, we are posting some pictures.  I cannot figure out how to get the layout of these to look the way I want so this was the best i could do :)  If you are our friend on Facebook, you might have seen some of these pictures, but if you aren't we wanted to share a little bit about the place we call home with you.   Well, just the outside. We are still working on the inside.  Today, someone is here sewing us new couch covers and in a few weeks the team from West Side will be bringing more of our household goods.  After that we can give you a glimpse of the inside.  We love this place and feel so comfortable here. I just told Tim last night that I think I feel safer here than a few others places I have lived in. Perhaps that is because our door bolts into the wall, ceiling, and floor, there are bars on the windows, and we are on the fourth floor.  Who knows?!?!

Some of the others are on our way to work and at work.  We really don't take our camera with us much so our selection of photos is a little limited.  Enjoy!!




We didn't know when we moved in we would have
lake-front property (only during rainy season)..
Or a breeding ground for mosquitos!

Where we do our laundry

The road to work

Juja Road.  We turn off of this road to get to the center.
There are just a few obstacles to watch out for.

Missions of Hope Center.
Where we work   

Always construction.  And for awhile
there was also always rain.

Cooking dinner by candlelight.
We lose power sometimes and usually right in the middle
of doing something important.

View from Missions of Hope Center.

We might have used some of the money we
got from selling our car to go to the beach
to celebrate our anniversary.

I might have cried because it was so amazing.


View from the front porch.
The large black things you see are the water tanks.
View of our street.  At the end and across the street
is a fruits and vegetable market.
 What I assume would be the google earth
street view!




The sunset we can see from the back porch.  So incredible!

An almost new normal...

Over that past few days, several of the people we were in training with in Colorado have written blogs or shared articles about the challenges that come with moving to another country.  It doesn't matter where you go, it is just hard to assimilate into another world, another culture.  When we first got here, everything was exhausting to us.  Some stuff still is now.  People would always ask us what we did and why we were so tired and some days our answer was as simple as "we went to the grocery store."  Of course, it took over 3 hours, but still a trip to the store is not usually so tiring.  But it is when it is different.  And overwhelming. And you don't quite get how to do the exchange rate so you end up buying over $30 worth of chicken (not that this happened to us or anything!).  Everyone looks different than you. Speaks differently (and we live somewhere where English is spoken regularly).  They know how the systems work and they move through them with ease.  While you as just trying to get by.  The newness and cultural overload left us so incredibly tired.  Ten hours of sleep a night was not nearly enough.  Working short days would feel like you combined 2 days into one. Sometimes just getting in the car and arriving at work was draining.

But now....we do many of these things with a great deal of ease.  We have a few grocery stores we frequent and we know where things are and what we like and what we don't.  We have a butchery we go to.  We can even split up at the store and shop alone to get our list finished a little faster.  We can drive to work even when the road we normally travel is unexpectedly closed. We can find our way around town with a little help from a map.  All these things make us feel so great most days.  There has been such improvement. such transformation since we got here.  Just the other day they closed a road and we ended up on some random side road down by the river-a place I am pretty sure we didn't need to be, but once we got back on the main road, I said to Tim, "hey, I didn't even freak out when we were lost!" That is huge improvement!    Even with all of this there is so much more to learn.  Bargaining is a huge part of buying things here and we have a huge fruits and veggie market down that block, but we haven't gone yet.  We just aren't ready to bargain for everything. One thing at a time.  It's a marathon, not a sprint.

A typical day for us is getting up, getting ready, and leaving for work.  Not unlike in the U.S. we still prefer sleep to breakfast, so I grab some hot tea and we both get some small snack to eat at work.  Then we head to work.  It takes about 10 minutes to get there which is so great.  We have to drive through the outskirts of the slums, so Tim is avoiding people, animals, cars, potholes, etc.  I consider it success when we make it to work unscathed.  For the past few weeks, we have been sitting in the admin office sorting and processing letters, gifts, and thank you cards.  This past Friday, we got our new desks and saw our offices.  I am with some great women.  One is the head teacher, another is the supervisor of social work and others work for Human Resources. Tim is in the Spiritual Development office.  We have yet to sit at our desks and work as we are at home this week waiting for some work to be done in our house.  We are having a fundi (or skilled worker, in this case a dude who sews) come to our home and recover our couch cushions.  Our couch is a hand-me-down and we really like it, but the covers are very worn so we needed them done and really want them to look like "us".  We have spent a good portion of the past 3 days waiting for the fundi to show up (another cultural experience :)  But we can't wait to see the end result.

Thanks to those of you who have been constantly praying for our transition.  I really think it is grasping a hold of the small things that will give longevity to our lives here.  God has been so gracious to us as we have adjusted.  It hasn't even been 3 months and we feel so comfortable at work, getting to work, at home, at the store, etc. We are making friends and have been able to easily keep in touch with family and friends who are far away.   We are really beginning to feel as though we are developing a new normal. So those prayers for things that don't seem like much have been both answered and huge for us.  I can't tell you how great it felt yesterday for us to park on the street and for Tim to go pay a bill and me to head off the opposite way ALONE to shop.  Oh, but please don't stop praying for us and our transition.  We have only scratched the surface of all there is to learn and to know.

Thursday, May 10, 2012

That Moment When.....





You know that awesome moment when you went to Kenya 4 years ago and met these great women who really touched your heart, but you thought you would never see them again, but then you run into one of them in the hallway at work?  Me too.  I love it.  It happened Tuesday.  This blog explains a little more about them.  Winnie was one of the ladies who really captured our hearts (she is sitting the photo above).  She has this smile that is absolutely contagious and when she sees you she is so genuinely excited to be with you.  She does not speak English well and we do not speak Swahili well so we have never really been able to talk to her, but  we have never had trouble communicating our joy.  When we were support raising, we told the story of Winnie several times because she just impacted us so much.

Honestly, I never thought we would see her again. Sometimes, those things make me sad, but I know that part of life is loving others, planting hope within them and many times you move on.  A lot of times you just don't get to know what happens.  You pray for the best and trust these beautiful souls to Jesus.

So, you can imagine my surprise when I walked out into the hallway on Tuesday and ran RIGHT INTO Winnie.  And the best part is, she remembered me.  And Tim.  Her face lit up and we hugged and squealed. Then I yelled to Tim and he was so excited.  We "talked" for a only few minutes because she was there to see a teacher.  What that means is 1)She is still alive!! 2) She is still around and is doing well 3)Her kids are getting a fantastic education.  Tim and I were so ecstatic I thought our hearts might burst.

What made all this even more special was that on Monday night we had been talking about how "doing ministry" has looked a lot different for us this time than it did as interns.  When we were interns we were always in the community, sharing Christ, forming relationships, hugging kids, encouraging others, being with the people.  For a few weeks we did some of that, but now we sit in an office. We read, sort, and prepare letters and gifts from sponsors for the students.  It is so great and I wish there was a way to communicate to you the relationship that is being built across thousands of miles.  Simply by the written word.  And a few stickers.  Most sponsors and their sponsored kid(s) will never meet, but there is such a love communicated through letters, cards, and gifts small enough to fit in an envelope. We love this, but it seems different.  Because, well, it IS different.

This conversation began because someone commented on this photo on Facebook and mentioned it being a picture of God's call on our lives (still can't believe God asked us to come and love on these precious ones. As a job!).  And it is.  Yes, 4 years ago we walked around and hugged on kiddos ALOT and since we absolutely adore these children it is one of the biggest ways in which we fell in love with this place and this ministry, but now we are getting to be such a part of the backbone of this ministry.  Still the kids of course, but also the school, and the Hope Partnership Child Sponsorship program.  Everyday, not only do we get to see these faces and hear them playing, we get to be a part of continuing to connect them with someone across the globe who loves them.  We get to do this for a LONG time, much longer than two months.

As we have been adjusting to being here, I have really been thinking about what ministry looks like.  And what I feel like I am being shown is that it doesn't really look any particular way.  It is sharing love, hope, laughter, tears, joy, smiles, words in Swahili (or English).  It is hugs and games.  It is a greeting. A song.  It is driving through crazy traffic. It is buying our groceries.  Walking into our apartment compound.  It is all these things that we do each day-with Jesus added to them.

I love that God gave us this beautiful gift of seeing Winnie again.  We got to see the fruits that resulted from hope planted.  That doesn't always happen. Probably doesn't even happen often.  So thankful it happened Tuesday!